The Seattle Public School system has filed a lawsuit against Big Tech, claiming social media platforms “intentionally contributed to the youth mental health crisis." From a rise in teen depression, sleep deprivation, and even suicide, we are finally willing to admit publicly what so many of us have known all along: that the ubiquity of social media is having a devastating effect on our young.
Much of Seattle’s legal case is based on the work of San Diego State University psychology professor Jean Twenge, author of "iGen." Twenge claims the evidence now suggests it's not just correlation, but causation, that connects the overuse of social media platforms to high rates of teen anxiety.
Big Tech, of course, is claiming that they care very much about our kids, and they try really hard, really they do! No, they do not. Those of us who saw the docudrama The Social Dilemma are well aware of Big Tech’s efforts not only to addict our kids to social media, but even manipulate algorithms to increase stimulation. Of course a lot of that stimulation is negative.
This is nothing any parent doesn’t realize. This is the first time, however, that there has been this kind of official action employed on behalf of protecting our children from the insanity. There are so many pressures on all of us now, pressures that when I was growing up we couldn’t have even imagined. But most of them stem from the same unethical phenomenon: the willingness of huge corporate forces to run roughshod over our lives in whatever way necessary in order to serve their bottom line. As long as a financial return to stockholders is more important that the health and safety of people - even our children - and as long as government is willing to allow it to happen, then hey, none of this should surprise any of us.
It’s time to say “STOP THE MADNESS.”
I remember reading an interview years ago in which Bill Gates said something about limiting the time he allowed his children to spend online. Sort of like when Madonna published her coffee table book called Sex, taking any possible beauty out of it, then waxing righteous on how she was protecting her children from smut. There’s something here about coming up with the problem, making money off the problem, and then trying to protect your own children from it.
Many of us are thinking, could you please try to protect my children too?
All of us know how addicted we can be to our tablets, and as adults we’re capable of making the calculations necessary to balance risk and reward. Yes, I want to use social media; no, I do not want to find myself having just wasted an hour scrolling through Instagram posts that taught me absolutely nothing. I’m old enough, and my mental structure is solid enough, to understand what’s happening. But at the age of 14, I would not have had a clue.
The age issue is significant. One of the ways Big Tech is already trying to win the PR war initiated by Seattle’s lawsuit is to point out that certain platforms aren’t available to kids until they turn 13. Oh, really? Because no proof of age is necessary. Any 8-year-old can figure out how to check the box that says “Yes, I’m 13.” Duh.
This problem has been with us for a long time, and parents are understandably filled with fear around it. It’s worth noting, by the way, that in the effort to fight the tragic epidemic of accidental Fentanyl deaths among teenagers, Snapchat still resists parental and legal efforts to join the struggle. Though evidence is clear that the site is being used to buy and sell illegal drugs, naming names would cut into their revenue. Did you hear what I just said?
Even when parents do every bit of due diligence possible to protect their children from dangers associated with certain social media platforms, there’s a limit to what you can do when the kids are at other people’s houses, or even upstairs in their room supposedly doing homework. Someone who doesn’t even yet have a fully formed prefrontal cortex - and that would be every child and teenager - cannot be expected to handle the pressure, or complexities, of the online world today. Adults must protect them. I say kudos to Seattle Public Schools for trying.
In the meantime, remember that Adam Smith, the primary articulator of the theory of free market capitalism, said “it could not exist outside an ethical context.” As long as people are willing to unethically create profit centers based on what they know to be the creation and maintenance of human suffering, we will have a problem on our hands.
There is such a thing as healthy shame. Big Tech should definitely be ashamed. And in the meantime, I’m very glad it’s being sued.
Hi Marianne,
Great piece. I particularly like when you wrote: "As long as people are willing to unethically create profit centers based on what they know to be the creation and maintenance of human suffering, we will have a problem on our hands." This applies to most of our so-called acceptable business sectors, like the movie industry (glorifying violence that influences the young), big pharma, big ag, the military industrial complex, Wall Street, etc. Plus, the toxic influence seeps into our educational systems too.
The super challenge to restore sanity, it seems, is based on the core well-being of people and our planet above all other considerations, and it will only happen when people are willing to evolve to construct new whole systems. Meanwhile, we all do our best; yet, we need to quickly scale-up or reach critical mass to turn the Titanic away from hitting the glacier. Your dedicated work, drawing attention to global failures, is significant. I continue to appreciate your endeavors to bring toxic matters into the limelight because the more the masses gain a truthful perspective, well, the quicker we can save existence on Earth. You are definitely an evolutionary motivator! Thank you for all you do for everyone.
Not shocking at all and I recall in my high school psychology class I studied the impact of vanity image magazines and their display of youth and what it did to the respectful honoring of our elders. The big advertisers and whomever was behind them wanted very much to villianize getting old so that everyone would put their attention and money on staying young, looking young and beautiful. Since then, we have moved into an almost absent minded perspective of becoming older, where it is seen as some unspeakable disease. Yes, Shame on Big Tech and any other institution that manipulates people for the bottom Line, the money, the clear profit. We have to remember though, we asked for this lesson. What is it that we are so not wanting to look at in ourselves that we will spend any amount of money and time to divert our attention? We each have to ask ourselves this question. I would imagine the seeker would pick up A Course In Miracles to begin the pathway and the answer will become more clear. We are a world now controlled by Big Tech, so what is the answer? I would imagine Marianne has a good idea since she became very clear on many issues when she ran for president, I will never forget her efforts. We are in the process of creating Heaven on earth, or Heaven within ourselves and that process means going within, go within first to have it expressed outwards. One person at a time. Since we are all connected via God Mind, our individual thoughts are so important to watch and guide, in love.